I hope you are thinking about her heart, or anyone else’s for that matter, before you give them your penis.” Sex should couple emotion and love it should be done with thought.
It hurts us to know that we have let you “IN” yet, you never wanted to be there for more than that moment. I don’t want you being a man just slinging your thing at every hole that comes your way. It is your responsibility as a man to spend your time with those you want to really spend your time with. Do you understand that statement? Women are sensitive creatures who, for the most part, have a direct connection between the vagina and their heart. “Women take men “IN” we hold you FIRM and try not to let you go. “What do you mean my heart, Mom? What are you talking about?” he said. If you are having sex with her without your heart in it, then do her a favor and stop immediately.” She traveled over here to see you and displayed every action indicating she is very interested in you. Your girlfriend loves you she was still googly-eyed yesterday while I was cussing you both out. But most women see sex differently than men. I understand that you want to get it on and be very physical due to your hormones raging out of control. “Let me explain something to you about the responsibility of having sex. “I don’t know, I guess so, maybe,” he responded. Speaking of control, are you in love with your girlfriend?” I can’t allow you to take me to a place where I am out of control. “No I am apologizing for the way I behaved regardless of the situation. “Is this a joke? You are apologizing to me because I broke the rules?” he said. He looked shocked and slowly shook his head As a parent I have to show restraint even in difficult times, because I would want you to think before you speak. I said many things I meant, but I shouldn’t have said them out loud. “First off, I wanted to apologize for the way I behaved yesterday towards you and your girlfriend. I called him into my room the next day to find out why he made this poor decision once again. I am not comfortable knowing that my son is having sex in his room. I am more of the if-you-have-time-to-hang-out-then-you-have-time-for-work-and-school mom. I realized that I didn’t have a conversation with my son about which way he views sex and felt a conversation was in order. I am not the “cool mom.” I am not going to put condoms in a jar and allow girls to come “hang out” with him in his room. Sexual behavior can be animalistic and reckless or done with feelings of love, longevity and respect.